Babysitting Co-op
This was something I learned about when visiting my brother's family in NM. They told me all about their babysitting co-op and I got so excited about it that I took the initiative and started it up with a few friends in the neighborhood. It's grown to involve about 14 families, and more can still join. We're doing it a little differently than they did it in NM, but the basic idea is the same.
This is how it works:
Every family who joins the co-op, receives 10 blue coupons that are each good for 1 child for 1 hour of babysitting. So if they need 2 kids to be babysat for 2 hours, they will "pay" 4 coupons. Then, we also have 1 yellow "weekend date night" coupon that is good for the entire family for 3-4 hours on a weekend night. This makes it fair so that every time you babysit on a weekend night, you get a chance to get out the next time.
If someone needs a babysitter, they just email the entire group asking who can do it, and usually within a few hours, they have a willing sitter. There are no obligations, other than when you volunteer to watch someone's kids.
My favorite things about it:
- we save money from not paying babysitters
- we have always been able to find a babysitter when we've needed one
- it eliminates the awkward phone call to a friend or neighbor when I need their help
- it's even better than trading babysitting with one family because you don't have to keep track of who owes who, and you don't have to work around both family's schedules
Dinner Group
I've been hearing about this from another sister-in-law for awhile, so I don't know why it took me so long to get one going. We have 3 families in the group, and so we each take a night each week to make dinner for the other 2 families (the dinner includes the main dish and two sides). We make up a calendar ahead of time to make sure that we get variety each week. It makes for 2 blissful evenings when dinner arrives at our door, hot and ready to eat. Not to mention that our dishes after dinner are quick and easy. Then we have one day a week when I spend a lot of the day in the kitchen, and at about 5:00 I'm a little stressed, trying to get dinner ready on time for three families. On that night, we have a lot more kitchen clean-up, and I'm exhausted. But the pros far outweigh the cons. And I've found that it's become easier the more I've done it.
What I love about our dinner group:
- I personally enjoy the food more when I didn't spend the time preparing it
- The nights we get dinner brought to us, I don't have to think about dinner, and I can spend my late afternoon doing other things
- There is less time that I feel like I'm neglecting my kids while I prepare dinner
- We eat better (more variety, well-balanced meals, and more desserts!)
- I'm finding new meals ideas and recipes from my friends' meals
- Our monthly grocery spending has gone down
- I am more motivated and get more enjoyment out of cooking the one meal, knowing that my friends' families will be getting it too
Price Matching at Wal-mart
I may have already written about this on our blog, but since it's still one of my favorite things, I'll write about it again. We save SO much money each month on groceries by only buying what's really on sale, and buying enough to stock up for awhile. I get the sale details from a website www.dealstomeals.com, where they have it organized so well that I can quickly make my list of all the sale items from every store around. Then I head to Wal-mart. It took me a lot longer at first, but it's getting easier and faster each time. Sometimes I can't find the right item to match the sales, but most of the time I can. I leave the store each week with a huge grin, knowing I just saved a LOT of money!
To give an example of the deals I've been getting, I only buy grapes for $0.99/lb, sour cream and cottage cheese for $1.00, yogurt for $0.33 or less, cheese when it's $3.99 for 2 lbs., sausage when it's $1.00, pre-made salads for $1.00, ice cream for $1.00 and cereal for $1.50 or less. Then often, I'll get crazy deals, like a cucumber for 0.20, a pineapple for $2, Fuji apples for $0.33/lb, bakery fresh french bread for $0.50, kiwis for $0.20 each, etc.
I love that it's easy and doesn't have to involve any coupons. I love that I go to ONE store, instead of running around town from store to store, only to find that the sale items are gone. And I'm surprised how easy it is--you don't have to show the adds and most of the time, they don't even ask what store is having the sale. They trust your word, and this takes away a lot of the stress. In the end, it benefits Wal-mart too, because they are still getting my business, and I end up buying some other non-sale items from them each time as well.











