Friday, July 30, 2010

Our Entire Summer All in One Post!

I know that blogging is not meant to be this way, but for some reason, at this point, it seems easier for me to do one big post, than to do them individually. So...here's a big summary of the highlights of our summer:


Thatcher Weddings
June was the month of weddings for the Thatchers. First Katie & Cody, and then Alex and Tiffanie. Both couples were married in the Logan Temple, and both days were absolutely wonderful! It has been so fun to see them so full of love and so happily married.

As a side note, I somehow convinced Katie and Cody to let me do the flowers for their reception. Luckily, my friend, Hayley is a professional florist, so she offered to help me. She gets all the credit, because she did all the hard parts and taught me how to do everything else. But they turned out beautifully, and we were all pleased (how can you go wrong with Gerber Daisies?). I would love to develop that talent more in the future!








Camping with our Neighbors
We went on a camping adventure with the Ormes up to Mill Hollow reservoir, not knowing if we'd get a spot. We felt lucky to get a beautiful site close to the reservoir. The scenery was SO beautiful! We had a very fun time, except from 11pm - 7am. We got VERY little sleep, but somehow survived the night and the next day!


The girls helped Daddy put up the tent (this is always the funnest part!)


But then they wanted to hang out in the car rather than in the tents

Fishing was a blast (even though we didn't catch anything)


Look at this girl...happy as can be, even though she cried half the night!


Our New Bunny, Ashley
Uncle Aaron said we could get another bunny from him, so as we drove to his house to get the male bunny he had already picked out for us, we asked the girls what they want to call it. They thought for a moment, then Gracie said, "Ashley" in a very confident tone. Millie agreed and as far as they were concerned, it was decided! We tried to tell them that it's a male bunny and that Ashley is a girl name, but they insisted that they want a girl bunny named Ashley. After trying for awhile to convince them otherwise, we finally let it go.

Then later that night, it dawned on me that it wouldn't matter either way! They can have their way with this bunny. It can be a male "girl" named Ashley, and no one will know the difference. I started laughing at my discovery! We've been trying to have less "battles" and "power struggles," so it was good for me to realize that here was yet another example of when it really doesn't matter if they get their way. After all, it is their bunny, so they should get to name it!

It's been so fun to have another bunny! We love it when friends come over to see the bunnies and Millie and Gracie get practice sharing them with others. We also got a bunny leash to try to take them on walks or to the park, but so far, the bunnies have been able to sneak out of their leash.






Fourth of July
We LOVE this time of year! We try to hit every parade we can, and we never tire of watching fireworks. The girls really enjoyed riding their bikes in two parades (we crashed Josh and Elena's little neighborhood parade so we could see their new place), but they couldn't understand why these parades don't have candy.




Gracie was so cute riding her big wheel! She is a very independent spirit, so even though she is still learning to ride, she refused to have dad push her. Thank goodness he is a patient man! She came in very last in both parades, but she was completely oblivious to this. In her eyes, it was a success because she did it ALL by herself!


Millie rode near the front and tried hard to avoid running in to other children on their bikes.

Claire was so happy to just be hanging out on a blanket with her cousin, Eila.


Couldn't be 4th of July without the traditional flag cake at Grandma & Grandpa Yorgason's

Cabin and Bear Lake
We spent a few days in Logan Canyon at a family cabin with Mark, Em and boys. It was SO beautiful and peaceful. No cell phone connection and no TV. The kids played outside by a small stream, chased butterflies, threw rocks, and explored. Paul got to fish with Mark. The kids got to know their cousins better. We had a game night with the Stauffers. It was very relaxing and fun!





We especially loved our day at Bear Lake. We cruised around in Mark & Em's motor boat, and played on the beach all day long.



Thatcher Family Reunion
We had another great reunion at Thatcher Manor with all the cousins. It was a country theme, so the kids decorated cowboy hats, we all did some square dancing, there was a root beer drinking contest, a tug-o-war, and then the usual movie, slip 'n slide, and camping outside in the yard. We were horrible at taking pictures, so this one will have to do!



Park Playdates
I got the idea from a friend of mine to organize a series of park play dates all summer long. We go to a different park each week, and there has been a fun group there every time. This has helped me to get us out of the house, get to know more of the local parks, and help the girls become more comfortable with physical challenges. Plus, it's always fun to be with friends!

Grace was so afraid of this bridge, that she insisted on sitting and scooting along it. I think she inherited my fear of heights. Poor girl! Okay, think positive, Jen: "she is cautious!"

Millie loves new physical challenges and finding fun "tricks" to do on the bars
And luckily, Claire has been content just watching!

Thanksgiving Point
For her birthday, we all gave Grandma Yorgason a "grandparent's pass" to Thanksgiving Point. We are excited to be spending a lot more time there this year with her. Lauren's cousin birthday party was there, so we had an excuse to spend the day there with grandma.

We had a fun time in the water gardens...

going on a bear hunt and actually finding a bear...

The girls LOVED the pony rides! They begged to go again! Glad they've conquered this fear!


This Is The Place Monument
The Fairbanks family reunion is held here every year. We love how kid-friendly the park is and it's always fun to see cousins from the Yates side there!

Millie in the petting zoo

Grace and cousin Lauren. Grace is proudly holding a praying mantis that we found, which she was way more interested in than all the goats and lambs she could have pet.


They have a fun new addition this year to the park--cute kid-sized homes and buildings for them to play in.

Swimming!
Instead of taking swimming lessons this year, we opted to do a lot of swimming at the pool and in our backyard (hey, might as well take advantage of the fact that this is STILL exciting to them). We've had many fun days out in the backyard with our friends.

Hannah mailed us these goggles from South Dakota, and they have been well worth her money in postage. Here's Grace in one of my favorite photos of the entire summer:


It's always a party when we meet up with Abby in the backyard to play! There's something about the spontaneity of it all that makes it really fun!





Ward Campout
We camped out at the Young's cabin up near Morgan, and it was absolutely beautiful! The cabin was amazing, with a huge yard that included swings, a river, a stream, a bridge that led to a nature walk, volleyball, and a 3-hole golf course. It rained hard right during dinner, but then the weather cleared up for the rest of the evening. We were smart enough to know not to sleep in a tent, but we were able to be there in the evening and come back in the morning. There was a great turnout from the neighborhood and a good time had by all.

Millie loved this tire swing!

Happy girl! Easy baby!

Dorito face!

Wake-up, Make-up, & Dress-ups
If I had to summarize our lives right now, it wouldn't be too far off to name it with those three words. The whole concept that "make-up is for mommies but you can use a little lipstick when you are playing dress-ups" is just not sinking in. Maybe that's because they dress up every day, and they try to apply make-up MANY times a day.

Some mornings, the "bed head" is picture worthy...and this was one of those mornings.



Grace still lets me do her hair most of the time, although she dictates how she wants it, and she usually pulls the clips out within an hour of getting them in. Ponytails stay in the longest, so I try to do those a lot.

Millie is learning to do her own hair (and then sneaking some make-up on too). Here are some flowers I've been making. She prefers three at a time. I consider it a good thing if they at least match her outfit. Hey, you have to pick your battles!

And on this particular day, she tested all the lotions as well. Notice, she has her purse, filled with her lipsticks that she has claimed from my drawers.

And here we have the blue eyeshadow caked on, even across the top of the nose

Grace decided she was up for getting a makeover

So happy to be like a mommy!


Here's a beautiful Halloween dress that Hannah sent for the girls. We all decided to try it on! We couldn't catch a picture of Grace before she ripped it off. But I somehow fit into it. The girls were stunned! So was I!

Here's what mommy looks like with short, curly hair. We used the wig to dress up as the "mommy" for some role plays during a Family Home Evening lesson
Millie liked being the mommy, but Grace just wanted to be "Gracie" the whole time.

Claire is Growing SO Quickly
This sweet girl is so much fun to have around! We don't take nearly enough pictures of her to capture all her stages, and just how adorable she is. But here are a few pics we got.

This was when she used to love sitting in the saucer with all the fun toys. Now that she is sitting and crawling, she feels a little confined in the saucer. She wants to explore the entire house.


She was a very early eater--started solids at 4 months, and by 7 months, she didn't want anything to do with pureed baby food. She prefers finger food that she gets to pick up eat herself, so we do our best to get her full on nutritious food, but it's not always easy.




"Laire-Laire" (nick-named affectionately by Grace) loves to be a big girl and do what her sisters are doing.
Usually when she is being held by her sisters, they end up leaning her back to lay on them. They love this position. She doesn't!

Claire discovers spaghetti and loves it!


Recent Art Projects
It's hard to throw these things away, but it's even harder to keep them! So I try to capture a few of the best ones, and then I send them on their way in the recycling can, usually with the reminder that "it's the process, not the final outcome that matters!"

Gracie has a unique style of coloring that we have come to appreciate. She rarely colors anything but princesses these days.


Millie decided that her dolly needed a skirt (in case you didn't know, Millie wears a skirt EVERY day!). I was skeptical about a paper skirt, but she showed me how to make it, and then she colored the design. It turned out really cute, and she was very pleased with her work!
Fruit loop art

Bad picture, but a very fun craft. Millie crushed up the fruit loops to make colored glitter. Then she drew a shape with glue and sprinkled the glitter on.

rainbows made my Millie and Daddy

The girls started out painting on paper, and it ended up all over their arms. This was a cast that Gracie gave herself for her "broken arm."


Chalk painting has been our daily backyard art project this summer. The girls love to get the chalk wet and use paint brushes, dipped in water to paint over their drawings.

They usually end up getting soaked and covered with the chalk, but they can play out there for a long time by themselves. I figure that's what childhood is about: discovery, creativity, and freedom! On days like this, I remind myself the words to a song, "Let them be little." This helps me enjoy their little activity instead of worrying about the mess I'll have to clean up.

Thursday, July 1, 2010

My Thoughts on our Anniversary


I can't believe that 5 years have already come and gone since we were married. I can honestly say that these have been the happiest 5 years of my life!

As we drove to the temple that sunny day, we were in love enough to willingly take that 'step of faith.' We were ready to make sacred vows to be together for eternity, even though we couldn't comprehend it all.

But we really had no idea just how wonderful married life would be. We didn't realize how the Lord would increase our love for each other. We had no idea just how fun married life is. We didn't know how much happiness our children would bring to us. We couldn't have known what the future would hold for us. But we knew it was the right thing to do, and we knew we'd be blessed by honoring that commandment.

As life's uncertainties and difficulties come our way, we know we have a loving companion to face them with. As trials and heartache come, we can strengthen each other and see our way through. We can help and encourage each other as we strive to overcome our weaknesses. Most importantly, we can help each other to stay close to the Lord, because He is the one who helps us through life's storms. Christ will help us to overcome all things.

Just yesterday, we were in the Logan Temple, in the same room where we were sealed, witnessing the sealing of Paul's brother, Alex. What a thrill to sit hand-in-hand with Paul in that very room, and remember our sacred time there. What a comfort to know that our vows are eternal--that we are 100% committed to each other and to the Lord. In a world where divorce is rampant, where marital vows are broken with every excuse, we will not give in to this trend. We will protect our marriage from Satan's blows, for it is a sacred gift from God.

Tuesday, June 15, 2010

Almost Kidnapped

Claire woke up crying at 3:30 last night.
As I gave her the binky, I glanced over to see Grace sleeping,
but Grace wasn't in her bed.
I doubted my nighttime vision and checked again.
Still, she wasn't there.
So I looked on the floor by her bed and then all around her room.
No sign of Grace.
I had an empty feeling inside.
In disbelief, I woke up Paul.
We began searching the house.
Not in her room. Not in the hall.
Not in the bathroom or in Millie's room.
Not in the living room, or the kitchen.
We checked the sliding door--locked.
Not downstairs, in the garage, or out with the bunny.

All I could think of was Elizabeth Smart's abduction,
and how cute Grace is. Of course someone would want her!
She's adorable!

Then I walked back in to our bedroom
and turned on the light.
There she was!
Sprawled out on the floor, right by our bed.
What a relief!
I must have walked right by her twice!

As we got back in bed, we felt a huge sense of gratitude for our sweet Gracie. We felt for a few minutes how it would feel to lose her, and we want to do all we can to keep her safe and with us forever.

Thursday, May 27, 2010

Happy Birthday, Princess Millie!



Millie's Birthday has come and gone! She had such a fun day. She got to be spotlighted at preschool, and she got to bring a treat to share with everyone. At night, we had Abby's family and Sister Lindsey over for FHE and birthday cake.

Last year, she was oblivious to birthday presents, but this year, that was the most important thing! Right when she woke up, she wanted to open her presents. I decided to give her one or two, but after each one, she asked for another. Once she had opened them all, she said, "no, I want to open another one! Just go find another gift for me." So I asked what it would be. She said, "lipstick." So, with that clue, I quickly rummaged up some old lipstick. When she opened it, she quickly said, "yes!" I learned my lesson to ask her beforehand what she would like!



Here are some things we'll hope to remember about our sweet Millie at this age

Millie...
-loves Jesus and Heavenly Father
-is so good at sharing with her sisters
-likes to do what is right
-seems to be good at everything she tries
-is learning to read
-loves to color
-sings silly songs that she makes up
-sneaks out the backdoor to play with Abby
-picks up Claire and holds her (without any help)
-wears a skirt almost every day
-loves to make people laugh
-can swing high
-plays computer games on PBSkids
-rides her bike with training wheels
-wants to bear her testimony often
-does crafty things with glue and scissors
-do tricks (i.e. swinging, hanging, snapping)
-has a sweet-tooth
-is a natural ballerina that dances daily
-loves to spell and write notes

Friday, May 14, 2010

We Are Privatizing!

I've been thinking about doing this for WAY too long! I keep getting comments from strangers, and that is a little spooky! So, we are going private very soon! But I don't want to lose contact with my friends, so please send me your email if you'd like me to send you an invitation to our blog!

Any other suggestions for going private?

Wednesday, May 5, 2010

A Princess in Training





Every time Millie draws a picture of herself, she is in a princess dress. And yesterday in her prayer, she said, "Please help me to be a good princess!" Maybe that's because she took her lipstick purse to the baptism on Saturday and spent the first 15 minutes of the meeting getting all "done up." We talked about it afterward, but she still insisted on having her purse at Joyschool this week, and went into a distressed fit when one of the lipsticks was missing! What have we done to give a 3-year old a love for lipstick! I'm a little worried she is going to become a teenager at age 6! But we love her and often teach her that princesses are always nice, like Cinderella. However, we watched a few minutes of Jasmine yesterday, and to our shock, she said "stupid"! Bad timing! Somehow the girls heard this word last week, so we've had an early lesson on "bad words" that make our mouths dirty.

Thursday, April 8, 2010

"You can tell a lot about a person by the shoes they wear"

Gracie's


  • referred to as "my pint ballet shoes"
  • found at our Stake "give and take" last fall (what a find! I wish I could thank the donors)
  • worn by both girls daily all winter long (until Millie got new shoes--see below)
  • the only shoes I have been able to get Gracie to wear to church, even through the winter (I worried what people would think, but when you have to get out the door, you don't want to mess with Grace!)
  • worn out in the toes by Millie doing ballet dancing on her toes
  • I wish I knew where I could buy another pair!


Millie's



  • Are fairly new, but already well-worn
  • Were found at Wal-mart for $7
  • Were purchased because 1. she wore Gracie's (the ones above) everyday, even though they were too small; 2. I was tired of breaking up fights over who's turn it was for the pink princess shoes; 3. She has been asking for "princess shoes without a strap" for months
  • Before she saw them, she asked with excitement, "Are they pink?" (whew, I got the right color!)
  • Originally came with a strap, but I was willing to take the risk to cut them so we could have the "picture perfect" shoe
  • The bows come undone many times a day, and so after re-tying them WAY too many times, I finally glued the bows with a hot glue gun today! Yeah!

"All Things Testify of Him"

And this is especially true in the Springtime, when we celebrate Easter. We tried hard this year to teach our daughters that Easter is really about Jesus. We told stories of his death and resurrection. We tried to explain how the Easter egg symbolizes new birth that He offers us; but I don't think they got it! Maybe because they pictured commercialized hard-boiled, plastic, or candy eggs, instead of an egg with a baby chick.

But I realized today that all we have to do is walk outside and show them the flowers that have miraculously come to life again in a flowerbed that just a few weeks ago was brown and dead-looking...





This is an easy way to teach them what the Savior can do for each one of us, during this life and after. Some days our lives seem dark and hopeless, but President Hinckley often told us that there is light at the end of the tunnel. This hope is only through Christ, who is "the light, the life, and the way." All things truly testify of Him.


Follow up (a few days later): I took an opportunity to try to teach this to the children in the car on the way to preschool. I pointed out the flowers and reminded them of how they seemed dead, but then they came to life again. Gracie blurted out quickly, "Just like Jesus came to life again!" I was so happy--they did learn something over Easter!

Easter Egg Hunt 2010

When it comes to the Easter Bunny, this was our best year yet! We had 3 egg hunts and way too much candy. At G & G Yorgason's house, they spotted me outside the window when I was hiding eggs, but still didn't put two and two together (those years will be over soon!). Millie was SO cute and full of excitement as she we waited for the big Egg Hunt. Gracie was better able to "fend for herself" this year--in fact, she got more candy eggs than anyone! Even though they really enjoyed it, you can see from the pictures that this was a very serious endeavor. No smiles!







Wednesday, April 7, 2010

SO ready for Spring!

Planting the Garden
Our first seeds are in! Paul LOVES to garden, and he loves teaching the girls about it. They ask everyday if the seeds are coming out of the ground yet. We're trying pole peas this year, along with our other usual crop of beans, snap peas, carrots, cilantro, & lettuce.


"Good-bye" winter!
(I'm a bit embarrassed that I let these dead flowers stay on my porch all winter long!)

"Hello" spring!
(oh, and somehow I completely forgot to water these for the first week they were in the pot. It took me a while to figure out why they weren't thriving! Oh yeah, I have another baby to take care of everyday!)

Playing Outside
This gal has spent very little time outside in her life. We just couldn't wait to get her swing installed, but when she finally got in the swing, she didn't seem too excited about it! I think it was still too cold for her.


A Little Trip Down South
We spent the weekend in St. George for a much needed family get-away. The girls were so excited to go swimming! We made the mistake of telling them about swimming to motivate them to get dressed and get in the car. But they couldn't handle such a long wait and long drive, so by the time we got to St. George, they were SO anxious to swim, that we drove straight to the pool, even before we went to the home where we'd be staying.

We also went to the driving range as a family... The kids were cute as can be, even though I'm sure the other golfers were wondering why we brought them. Grace cued up every ball for us. Millie got some good swings in. I actually hit the ball straight and further than 20 feet, and Paul did his normal performance of "wow"ing everyone who watched. Every hit was straight, high, far, and solid! He even hit one over the fence that landed on the roof of the building behind it. Pretty amazing for only golfing a handful of times a year.





Hiked the Dixie red rocks...to where I (Jen) used to come with my high school friends. It turned out to be a good little family hike as well.





(my sister and her family made a spontaneous trip to meet up with us)


(We get smiles like this all day long from this "Claire Bear"




Went to the Dinosaur Museum at Johnson Farm...
which turned out to be quite an interesting place! We highly recommend it. The girls' favorite part was the art tables with supplies to draw your own dinosaurs.





Visited the St. George Temple
...what a beautiful building! I love how white it is, especially against the backdrop of the red rocks and plateaus of the city.



(found a bug at the temple!)